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FREE AUDIO SERIES!

 

FREE AUDIO SERIES!

 

 

This is your chance to tell me exactly what you want me to teach you.  I will do a 30-60 minute audio series on any 1 topic and release it on my blog for people to download.  Just tell me what you want to know about and I’ ll do it!

Most votes per topic wins…and votes must be in by next sunday (Auguest 8th 2010).  So send me an email: Dubbsy@lovesystems.com with the subject: Audio Series and then the body of whatever you want to hear about…

Reeeeadddddyyyyyyyyyyyy ……… go!


 

 

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Fuck Buddy Rules… Rule #1: Treat Girls Like Gremlins

Who’s seen the movie gremlins? If you haven’t basically there are 3 rules to gremlins.

Rule #1: Don’t get them wet
Rule #2: Don’t feed them after midnight
Rule #3: Don’t expose them to sunlight

And if you treat girls the same way then you will never have a girlfriend, and they will stay in the FB frame. This rule was invented by a legendary Dating Coach… Barney Stinson…

So lets explain The Gremlin Rules:

Rule #1: Don’t get them wet

Don’t let them shower at your house… and don’ t shower at theirs.

Rule #2: Don’t feed them after midnight

This means, no breakfast, which means they don’t spend the night. And brunch just isn’t cool.

Rule #3: Don’t expose them to sunlight

Don’t see them in the day time… ever…

There you have it, the best ways to keep them from being your girlfriend ;-)

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Reaching Out!

 

Reaching Out!

 

 

What up Everyone!

I’m trying to get to know everyone in the community and be of as much help as I can to all you guys… so what I’m gonna do is open up the flood gates for you guys…. I’m gonna answer in as much detail as possible one question from everyone who emails me. ANYTHING YOU WANT TO KNOW about dating science and game, and life, and basically how to be a G
All I ask is that you become a fan of mine on Facebook, and follow me on twitter… once you do that, be a friend and say “what up” on my wall or tweet me saying “what up”… and then email me with your questions and I’ll get back to you with in one business day!

So to summarize”

– Go to my facebook and be my friend – Dubbsy’s FB

– Write on my wall and then Email me

Do the same thing on Twitter: Dubbsy’s Twitter

tweet me and then email me!

hope to meet a lot of you guys and be as much helps as I can!

Later fellas!!

– D


 

 

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The Download Section

 

The Download Section

 

 

ANNOUNCING THE DOWLOAD SECTION

I remember when I was starting and learning just as you are now… I would often wish.. “Damn I wish there was just ONE  section where I could download all the greatest information out there.”

Well it’s my intent to build that section for you guys.  Now most of the content at first will be my own, until other instructors (if they choose) contribute to it.

So to kick things off, I have uploaded a “Back and Forth” conversation, from Opener all the way to getting the Phone number.  Click here to go to the Downloads section and download the “Back & Forth” convo listed.

What to do with the “Back and Forth”:

  1. Recognize what type of opener/attraction/qualification/comfort was taking place
  2. Notice how she changed from Green light to yellow, to green, to yellow, to green (if you don’t know the stop light theory, email me: Dubbsy@lovesystems.com) and what I did to get her to change each time (good and bad)
  3. Send me (use this email link for new subject: Dubbsy@lovesystems.com) your analysis and I will work with you till you see everything right and wrong in this conversation

Ok, what are you waiting for? Download that shit right meow! ;-) and don’t forget to sign up to receive notifications on new posts and upcoming additions to the best dating science blog on the internet (mine of course ;-) ).

Peace fellas!

-D


 

 

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Ping Texts and An Exclusive Chance For S. D. Residents

 

Ping Texts and An Exclusive Chance For S. D. Residents

 

 

Why Aren’t You In Attendance?

attendance

At the end of this month myself and other superstar Love Systems’ Instructor Pendrixx will be doing a special presentation in San Diego… which in German means, Whale’s Vagina.  This special presentation is reserved tho for only 40 people (due to venue restrictions) which kinda sucks, but just means you gotta hurry up and sign up!

At the presentation we’ll be going over the 3 hottest topics in Dating Science today!

  • Same Night Lays
  • Phone and Text Game
  • Day Game

You’ve all ready received a sample of what we’ll be talking about for the Same Night Lay section… if you haven’t then you need to read this post: Dubbsy on SNL’s

For phone and text game… here’s a list of some Ping Texts (to find out what a ping text is, either buy Braddocks book: Phone & Text Game or come to Dubbsy & Pendrixx’s seminar).

Ping Texts & Standard Responses

  • So did tonite count as our first date?
  • You text your mother with those fingers?
  • You never know which way to look when eating a banana
  • It’s impossible to look cool picking up a frisbee
  • I think bumper stickers is a shortcut to saying, lets never be friends
  • if they say have a good nite, or have funAlright I will, but don’t tell me what to do

Come to the San Diego seminar or buy the book if you want to see more, and learn everything you can about Phone & Text Game.

Peaaaaaceee

– D


 

 

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Ping Texts and An Exclusive Chance For S. D. Residents

 

 

Why Aren’t You In Attendance?

At the end of this month myself and other superstar Love Systems’ Instructor Pendrixx will be doing a special presentation in San Diego… which in German means, Whale’s Vagina.  This special presentation is reserved tho for only 40 people (due to venue restrictions) which kinda sucks, but just means you gotta […]


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Sorry Fellas, please excuse the blog appearance for a little while, doing a little remodeling on this here.
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My Life…

 

 


SNL’s & ONS’s – Part by Part Guide

 

 

There’s a lot of hype about SNL’s and ONS’s… as well there should be, they’re what a lot of guys get into this to be able to do. Meet a girl, run the perfect game, and then take her home and close the deal… then decide what direction you want the relationship to go.
While […]


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Sorry Guys…

 

 

My apologies fellas… I have my family out here (in LA) from NY and I’m going to have to delay this next LOTW until monday or tuesday… Stay tuned!!
– D


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My Boy Bonsai on Strippers!

 

 

What up fellas!! Merry Xmas!!, happy b-day Jesus, and to the fellow tribe members (jews like me) I’ll see you at the movies…
Something I’ve been getting obsessed with lately is Stripper Game, and one of the LS Dating Coaches Bonsai has been coming out with a lot of awesome material to use and learn! […]


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Sick Song

 

 

Snoop and Souljah Boy – Pronto


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Underground Kangaroo Boxing?

 

Going to Sydney for Soul’s Bootcamp, and I couldn’t possibly be more excited!! I’ve never been to Australia, and anytime I get to work with Soul is always fucking awesome and a learning experience.
5.0 will be there too, and I’ve had one of the craziest nights out with him when I was […]


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Free Conference Call!!

 

 

Once and a lifetime opportunity…
Braddock’s Phone and Text Game book is to be release REAL SOON! But before it gets put out there, Savoy and Braddock have decided to do a FREE 90 minute conference call to discuss the intricacies of Phone and Text Game.
There’s only 400 lines available for this so […]


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Under construction

 

 

So I got no idea how to work this thing. My bad to anyone who visits while I figure this out… should be up and running soon! holla!


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The LA Move…

 

 

Can I holla at moving to LA!!
So Calabrese, Pendrixx, and I are going to be making the move out to LA early December.  Can’t wait for this, “Sorry NY, you’re fuckin out, LA is in!!”


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My Life…

 

 


SNL’s & ONS’s – Part by Part Guide

 

 

There’s a lot of hype about SNL’s and ONS’s… as well there should be, they’re what a lot of guys get into this to be able to do. Meet a girl, run the perfect game, and then take her home and close the deal… then decide what direction you want the relationship to go.
While […]


My Life…

 

 


College Game Q & A

 

 

If you haven’t already… you need to go check out my College Game Q & A Thread!
There are a lot of questions and answer up there so stop wasting time and go read them now!
ps. keep a look out for a college game product coming soon!
– D


College Game

 

 


Addition to Sticking Points, and Game Foundations…

 

 

(if you guys can’t see this picture, comment with your email and I’ll send it to you)
Idk about you guys, but I’m a visual learner. So I like drawing things out and mapping out what I’m doing.
Something Braddock has been doing in his workshops that separates them from all the others is…. Exercises. […]


Lesson of the Week

 

 


Sticking Points

 

 

!  Sticking Points  !

First off, If you haven’t heard Braddock, Mr M, and Rokker’s IVS on sticking points, then I would listen to that, it’s money!! A lot of this is stuff Braddock talks about on the Interview Series, but here’s a break down of Sticking points, how to recognize them, how to solve them, […]


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Sorry Guys…

 

 

My apologies fellas… I have my family out here (in LA) from NY and I’m going to have to delay this next LOTW until monday or tuesday… Stay tuned!!
– D


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The Next L.O.T.W. ….

 

 

So the way the Lessons Of The Week are goin to work is this… Every Sunday I’m goin to be postin a new lesson that is decided by you, the voting viewers.
Your votes must be casted (e-mailed to me at Dubbsy@lovesystems.com) by the previous Wednesday 9pm EST. ( So for the lesson on […]


Lesson of the Week

 

 


Lessons Of The Week

 

 

Something I’m starting is going to be a Lesson of the week… Every week on the same day (Sunday) I’m going to be writing a lesson of the week… feel free to email me with specific lessons you want to learn, and if it gets enough buzz then I’ll be sure to post it!! […]


Lesson of the Week

 

 


Braddock and Mr. M’s Inner Game Seminar

 

 

I’ve been getting some questions lately along the lines of: “What’s the one thing you’d say is most important in Game?” And with out a second of hesitation my response is two words, Inner. Game.
Inner Game is the difference between 2 guys going up to a girl, both sayin the same shit, and […]


Inner Game

 

 


My Boy Bonsai on Strippers!

 

 

What up fellas!! Merry Xmas!!, happy b-day Jesus, and to the fellow tribe members (jews like me) I’ll see you at the movies…
Something I’ve been getting obsessed with lately is Stripper Game, and one of the LS Dating Coaches Bonsai has been coming out with a lot of awesome material to use and learn! […]


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SNL’s & ONS’s – Part by Part Guide

There’s a lot of hype about SNL’s and ONS’s… as well there should be, they’re what a lot of guys get into this to be able to do. Meet a girl, run the perfect game, and then take her home and close the deal… then decide what direction you want the relationship to go.

While running your normal “good game” you will experience some SNL’s or ONS’s in your time… but in order to get these consistent, there are certain idiosyncrasies you have to recognize and follow…

and that’s what this Step by Step Guide will be for.. to spot and learn them.

So for starters I’d like to do 2 things… one, define some general points about SNL’s and ONS’s… and give you the general blueprint..

General Points:

– The difference between SNL’s and ONS’s –

SNL’s are just when you want to have sex with the girl the same night you meet them… it doesn’t mean you just want to hit it and split… You can have a SNL that leads to a relationship, a fuck-buddy, or any other kind of relationship you want… while a ONS, you’re there to fuck and then be out. You don’t plan on seeing them again, or calling them or anything… just strictly sex.

– Emphasizing –

You gotta emphasize different parts of your game here. More attraction, less serious qualification and comfort. More sexual energy, less softy nice guy shit

– Pinging –

throwing something out and seeing how they respond. Pinging is used to know where you stand in an interaction. Lets you know the girls thresholds, and it’s something you have to use in order to know when to escalate physcially, sexually, and logisitcally. Understand this concept cause it’s key to getting calibrated for all aspects of game.

– Some Mindsets That Are Crucial For SNL’s & ONS’s –

There’s nothing wrong with either standpoints … don’t think you’re using girls for sex, a girl that’s down to fuck and leave or just have sex that night is using you just as much as you are using her. They want it just as bad if not more.

This leads to my next point, you can’t think of girls as sluts or 2-cent whores just because they’re dtf the first night, or fuck and never talk to you again. If you do… my advice to help you get over that is to 1) Grow up and realize that it’s a double standard to hold women to… and 2) realize that you can’t achieve something that you don’t like… what I mean by that is, if you think SNL or ONS is “trashy” and “slutty”, and you don’t like “slutty” or “trashy” girls… then you’re not gonna want to talk to them and you’ll get turned off every time you get close to having an SNL or ONS.

Another key mindset is to “Act as if”. And by that I mean just act like the this is the normal thing to happen. Things are only a big deal if you make them one. So as Daxx says “Make it easy for them”.
An example of making it easy for them is asserting dominance:

So example: Don’t ask or do things that force girls to think about what you’re saying. “Hey do you want to get a drink.” forces them to consciously think about it… which people’s minds tend to wander allllll over the place when there’s uncertainty and questionable terms… so instead, be leading and dominant (not forceful)
and say… “lets grab a drink, you look like a light weight so we’ll just start with like a bay breeze or something girly” do you see the difference?

One last mindset I’ll give you today is: YOU HAVE HAVE HAVVVVVVE TO BE COMFORTABLE LEADING AN INTERACTION.

Ever hear of the “go first principle?” well by going first you do a bunch of things… 1) sometimes people hold back because they don’t know if it’s ok to do certain things… so when they see someone elese do it (you by going first) then they know it’s ok to do it as well… see where I’m going with that 2) it makes people feel how you feel… Mr. M wrote a sick article about that you should read in his classic writings section on TAF… but basically is monkey see monkey do, someone comes up to you smiling and jovial you’ll instantly feel that and be more receptive… someone comes up to you angry and frowning, you’ll be on alert. and 3) It helps give out the correct Vibes. Vibes are something that isn’t really mentioned in the community, but one of the most important things in my opinion… I’ll get more in detail about what a vibe is in a later section of this guide.

So there are some mindsets for you. I’m gonna leave this article here, but give you one last thing to get you started. The Blueprint for SNL’s and ONS’s :

open direct/situational, get attraction with teasing & push pull, sexual hoops (escalating touch) (screening), subtle qualification with frames and take aways (which solidify attraction)(screening)(seeding) Sexual Hoops (escalating touch), comfort with inside jokes, teases and wide rapport topics not deep rapport, and movement around the bars (seeding), pulling, and then closing

break that down, splice it with your game and see what comes out… I’ ll break them down for you over time as well.

Stay tuned, next SNL GUIDE article will be about some specifics things to look for in SNL’s and ONS’s.

Peace,

D

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College Game


College Game Q & A

 

 

If you haven’t already… you need to go check out my College Game Q & A Thread!
There are a lot of questions and answer up there so stop wasting time and go read them now!
ps. keep a look out for a college game product coming soon!
– D


College Game